PEOPLE SUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So, as you all knwo I am trying to plan my wedding and get things set and I am already runnign into obstacle after obstacle!!! I ahve lost my planned venue becuase the fire marshall code does not alow more than 75 people to be in one room at a time and since my gues list is at 1265 and steadily climbing I don’t think that is going to work!!
Then my uncle won’t marry us we are “living in sin!!!” by living together before we are married so our relationship isn’t based on GOD!!!!
Then most of Kris’ family won’t be there becuase I am black!! Oh it’s okay to date a black girla nd have your fun with them, btu don’t be trying to marry one intot he family and give her your name!!!!!
My bridesmaids are complaining and dictating already about the dresses!!! Which I haven’t even picked yet, just sent some pictures of some dresses I like!!! ARGHHHHH
It sin’t even close yet and I am already gettign frustrated. i mean I am exstatic about this and besides me, Kris, my mom and my sister, nobody seems to be sharing my excitement!! Well of course I don’t mean you guys on here, you guys are great!!!
Just a little bummed!!!!
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Oooh, weddings are supposed to be a happy time but some how things get out of control. I had a stressful time during my wedding plans but if I had to go back and do it over I would change some things. Like not letting people get to me. Do you ever watch Bridezilla? I love that show. It can show you how things just get out of hand and how a bride can really lose site of the whole idea of what a wedding is suppose to be about. And I’m not saying you will do that, but with all the planning and all the family headaches, those things help us forget that this is a wedding!!! Two people who are in love and who want to commit forever!! So, if your uncle doesn’t want to do it, then don’t let him ruin it. Find someone else. To him living together may be a sin but there are plenty of people who are having sex all the time before marriage they just don’t share the rent. And if he does believe it’s a sin, well here’s his chance to marry you and not sin anymore (not that I think you are). So let him stand by his ideas because they mean something to him and you stand by yours. As far as some of his family not showing, sure it probably hurts. But look at the bigger picture. Your sweetie may not care and all he wants to do is marry you. If I could go back in time, I would have just focused less on what people thought. It’s not easy but it really is the best thing to do in my opinion. At the end of it all, it’s about you two saying “I do” and the reception starting and a new chapter beginning. It’s more than just dresses and flowers. Pick a decent priced dress and say this is it. Please respect my choice. Sending them pics will only give them a platform to say their opinions. Choose only your best friend or sister to help you make a choice and that’s it. And that’s a pretty big guest list there so I wish you lots of luck with finding a place.
Dont let them get you down . As long as the two of you are happy thats what counts.
My husband and I got married by a judge in his house, it was nice not to have gone through all the headaches like your experincing, but it would have be nice to have done something like that.
The fact of the matter is we are happy and you should be too.
Dont listen to other people.
Like my mom always told me Dont listen to other people unless there paying your bills.
Good luck.
I’m so sorry, how judgemental of you uncle! Try and not let it get you down, just do you you feel is right for yourself. Love ya!
Just remember, this is your day! Family functions are rarely the fairy tale that we imagine because it involves dealing with people. But don’t let that stop you. Those who are truly important and honestly care will be there for you, and many who are giving you problems now may come around before the wedding. You are starting a new chapter in your life, and what really matters is you and your soon to be husband. Let the rest fall to the wayside, and enjoy your chance to shine!
I would almost just elope after that, because after all it is just about you and him
I JUST HAD TO SHARE WHAT MY MOM EMAILED TO ME WHEN I WAS DISCUSSING THESE ISSUES WITH HER:
Will do. You know the response you got makes me laugh. Toby, Jesse,Curtis, your dad all of them were some of the biggest sinners on the
face of the earth (but they forget this). Great, they got saved and changed. But I beg to differ see the part I copied for you. I think you should get their addresses and include this excerpt in each one. To include your dad.
Line Up Your Heart
Today’s Scripture
“The Lord does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the
outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart” (I Samuel 16:7
NIV).
Today’s Word from Joel and Victoria
When the Lord looks at your heart, what does He see? Every one has an
outer life and an inner life. The outer life is our public life that
everyone can see. The inner life is made up of your thoughts, your
attitudes and your motives. Only you and God know what’s going on
inside. Too many people go around today pretending-acting one way, yet
on the inside, they’re thinking something totally different. Their heart
and their actions don’t line up. We have to understand that God looks at
the inside. We can fool a lot of people, but we can’t fool God. God
would rather us be open and honest than for us to go through life
pretending or wearing masks. Take inventory of what’s going on inside of
you today. Are you at peace? Are you overlooking offenses? Do you
believe the best in people? Are your heart and actions lining up? If
not, submit your ways to the Lord today and ask Him to give you an
undivided heart so that you can be pleasing to Him all the days of your
life!
A Prayer for Today
Dear Father, I humbly come before You today and ask that You search the
deep places of my heart. Show me if there is any area where I need to
line up my heart and actions. Help me to be authentic in You today. In
Jesus Name. Amen.
Hey Girl: Sorry I haven’t been around. I’ve been flying back and forth to Ohio with my niece, mom ugh just let it all be over. It’s official not coming to VEGAS next month! Anyway forget all of that! This is YOUR DAY! REMEMBER THAT FIRST AND FOREMOST! It is all about Toni and no one else of course except KRIS but I’m sure he just wants you to be happy. (oops I capitalized his name again) just habit! Anyway there is always someone who will marry you - I can do it - I’m an ordained evangelist! YEAH!!! Anyway don’t worry about that God will provide someone for you. As far as kris family don’t sweat it it’s probably for the best especially if they don’t have your best interest at heart. You have to be happy and my husband said we are coming for sure to TEXAS so make sure you look beautiful and be happy! Just remember it’s about what you want and no one else. GOOD that mom sent you that people always forget where they came from and what they did. But I’ll be praying for you as far as the BRIDESMAIDS go it’s your wedding you call the shots if they don’t like it…..oh well! Don’t stress yet it is far too early for that! I didn’t stress at all because I knew going in it was my day and whomever didn’t like it so what! And one of my bridesmaids called out on my wedding day but guess what it turned out for the best! I;m here for you and everything will turn out beautiful. God will have all the wonderful people who love and support you at your wedding. Don’t sweat the small stuff!!! Missed you guys so much. Got to answer more blogs!
Look here chick…there are two people that matter in this wedding…yiu and you guy.
The wedding is about you two and if they don’t like it……f’em.
~~~~Sharky~~~~
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